Three Ways I Enjoy Ruined Orgasms

Ruined Orgasms by Princess AndiI enjoy all forms of cock control. It is no secret that I am a cock tease that enjoys tease and denial. I love giving masturbation instructions and all kinds of masturbation games. Many guys are surprised to learn how much I love ruined orgasms.

Why ruin an orgasm?

A ruined orgasm will keep you hungry. I like to tease guys that ruined orgasms are like Chinese food. In most cases, you will  be hungry again in 30 minutes. The real reason I enjoy ruined orgasms, and by ruined orgasms I mean ruining your orgasms, is doing this keeps you focused on ME. I love how horny you are for me, how more attentive you are. You are weak and puddy in my hands!

Three techniques I like to use on you to ruin orgasms.

  1. Abandoning: This is the very first technique I ever used to ruin an orgasm. I had no idea what a ruined orgasm was at the time of doing this. I was giving a guy a hand job in a semi public place and just as he was about to cum, I got startled because I thought someone walked in on us. I let go of his cock just seconds before he started to squirt.  Abandoning is exactly how it sounds. You stop all stimulation to the penis just as he starts to ejaculate. This is one of the easiest ways to ruin an orgasm.
  2.  Palming:  I like using this technique because it kind of keeps you guessing. What is palming? Well, it is when I take my hand and, as you are about to squirt, use my palm to “seal” over the tip of your cock head, pressing down over your cum-hole, keeping you from squirting.  The palm of my hand kind of hides your cock head and keeps you from seeing what is happening. An added frustration to you, or as I like to think, an added benefit to our hand domination scene.
  3. Thwacking: Now this ruined orgasm technique is especially devilish. I love using this technique with guys that are into CBT. What a delicious way to torment your cock!  Have no doubt, this technique will add to your frustration! Which, of course, makes me smile. This is how I enjoy implementing the thwacking technique. Just as your about to cum, I smack the very sensitive underside of your cock with quick, rapid slaps. Sometimes I use a wooden spoon. Most times I use my hand.  This slapping of your cock shocks it into not cumming. *evil grin*

Of  course, I may use other techniques to ruin your orgasm, and there are many. I wanted to mention 3 of the most common techniques I use with someone that is new to ruined orgasms.  If you are into cock control, a ruined orgasm is a must try experience.

Princess Andi


Ruined Orgasms

Ms. Andi loves ruined orgasms!

Ruined orgasms are very hot!

I had the pleasure of teaching a new caller how to ruin his orgasm. He loves cock control and guided masturbation. He enjoys ruined orgasms on a regular basis but had only experienced a ruined orgasm one way.  I was able to teach him another way to ruin his orgasm. This always thrills me. I love teaching a guy a new way to edge his dick, a new to him cock stroking technique and all kinds of sexy fun ways to feel good.

Not that a ruined orgasm initially feels good, but it’s that feeling you have in your balls. How you are still horny and achy after you are done. This feeling for many guys makes that initial frustration well worth it.

Ruined orgasms are a sexy form of cock control.

The best thing about this whole experience, with this particular guy, is that I got to watch him on cam. That made the whole cock control session hotter for both of us. It got pretty intense last night. I loved seeing how his big frustrated dick turned a deep shade of purple with frustration.  Listening to him plead with me for an orgasm and having him taste his precum for me. He even tasted what little cum did dribble out of his frustrated cock. At this point he was willing to do anything I wanted him to.  We both hung up very happy!


I will capture your cock and penetrate your mind,

Princess Andi


Ruined Orgasms and Cum Eating

How would you like to lick your cum off my fingers?

I am going to ruin that orgasm and yet you are so going to be eating your cum for me over and over and over again.

How am I going to manage that, you ask? Don’t worry about it sugar pop. I am going to tie you down, sit on your face and stroke your cock. I am going to slowly tease you and edge that dick till my hearts content and just when you want to pop. I am going to ruin that orgasm by removing my hands from that dick and let you dribble all over. I love how slippery your dick juice feels in my hands and when you have that ruined orgasm. I am going to feed it to you. Aw, you don’t think you wanna try? That’s okay this is about pleasing your Mistress and doing what keeps her happy. A little cummies in the tummy won’t hurt you. I promise you that and anyways– if you want me to control that cock. You are going to eat that cum that dribbled out now that I scooped it out and have it all over my fingers.

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Your hand domination Mistress Andi

Relax it’s just y0ur cum on my fingers

The nice thing about the hand job I am going to give you,  is that– I am going to ruin orgasm after orgasm until you are begging to eat all of your cum for me.

How long do you think you can handle me teasing that cock? How full and swollen are your balls going to be for me before I let those cum filled balls empty out all over my hands? I am looking forward to discovering the answers to those questions.  We are going to have so much fun together!

I am going to capture that cock and penetrate your mind,

Miss Andi