Three Ways I Enjoy Ruined Orgasms

Ruined Orgasms by Princess AndiI enjoy all forms of cock control. It is no secret that I am a cock tease that enjoys tease and denial. I love giving masturbation instructions and all kinds of masturbation games. Many guys are surprised to learn how much I love ruined orgasms.

Why ruin an orgasm?

A ruined orgasm will keep you hungry. I like to tease guys that ruined orgasms are like Chinese food. In most cases, you will  be hungry again in 30 minutes. The real reason I enjoy ruined orgasms, and by ruined orgasms I mean ruining your orgasms, is doing this keeps you focused on ME. I love how horny you are for me, how more attentive you are. You are weak and puddy in my hands!

Three techniques I like to use on you to ruin orgasms.

  1. Abandoning: This is the very first technique I ever used to ruin an orgasm. I had no idea what a ruined orgasm was at the time of doing this. I was giving a guy a hand job in a semi public place and just as he was about to cum, I got startled because I thought someone walked in on us. I let go of his cock just seconds before he started to squirt.  Abandoning is exactly how it sounds. You stop all stimulation to the penis just as he starts to ejaculate. This is one of the easiest ways to ruin an orgasm.
  2.  Palming:  I like using this technique because it kind of keeps you guessing. What is palming? Well, it is when I take my hand and, as you are about to squirt, use my palm to “seal” over the tip of your cock head, pressing down over your cum-hole, keeping you from squirting.  The palm of my hand kind of hides your cock head and keeps you from seeing what is happening. An added frustration to you, or as I like to think, an added benefit to our hand domination scene.
  3. Thwacking: Now this ruined orgasm technique is especially devilish. I love using this technique with guys that are into CBT. What a delicious way to torment your cock!  Have no doubt, this technique will add to your frustration! Which, of course, makes me smile. This is how I enjoy implementing the thwacking technique. Just as your about to cum, I smack the very sensitive underside of your cock with quick, rapid slaps. Sometimes I use a wooden spoon. Most times I use my hand.  This slapping of your cock shocks it into not cumming. *evil grin*

Of  course, I may use other techniques to ruin your orgasm, and there are many. I wanted to mention 3 of the most common techniques I use with someone that is new to ruined orgasms.  If you are into cock control, a ruined orgasm is a must try experience.

Princess Andi


Guided Masturbation for the smaller penis

Hello to all of you fans of hand domination,

Do you have a cock that are somewhat embarrassed about? Feeling like you don’t measure up? Now the title of this post might have some of you a little nervous thinking that– I am going to write about mocking little cocks, and  yes– I do enjoy my share of cock mockery; however, that is not what I am going to be writing about. I am going to write about exactly as I titled this post– guided masturbation for the smaller penis.

Teasing small little dicks with my hands


I enjoy giving hand jobs to cocks of all sizes and the other day I was teasing this little dick of about 3.5 inches hard. It was not a grower or a show-her.  Much to my amusement– I had fun using my index finger to tease and stroke this little excited penis.

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And that is what I want you to do– just because you have a little cock doesn’t mean that you can just stroke to your own hearts content. You need a Mistress to help reel that horny dick in and teach that little boner some manners.   I know deep down in the very depth of your balls–you and your little pecker agree with me.

So– hand domination and guided masturbation is much needed with the littler dicks — just as much as the bigger ones.

Little Dicks Are so much fun to tease!

I like seeing a little dick twitch and throb with excitement and ache for release just as much as any other cock.  So, this is what I am going to do. I am going to have you tease and edge that little guy and use just one finger. What??? You say? Just one finger!!! Yes– you read right. I want you to play with your balls too.

I want you to do this for as long as you can without cumming.

Keep me posted because if you impress me with your efforts– I might just let you lean back and relax while I tease you some more in a phone sex session.

Happy Cock Stroking, hand humpers!

Miss Andi~


Orgasm Denial is about saying “No”

orgasm denialIt’s common knowledge that I’m a cock tease of the very highest order. Anyone who’s been around me for longer than, oh, five minutes or so is well aware of that fact.

But sometimes guys ask me *why* I enjoy cock teasing and orgasm denial so much. And since I’m such a kind and giving person (LOL), I thought I’d devote a blog post to the topic to answer that question.

Ok, the short answer–the one that I usually give people–is “Because it’s fun!” And it totally *is* fun, but I guess y’all should have an answer that’s a little less flippant. So here goes.

I think part of the reason that I find it so funny is that men have been conditioned by society to believe that they are entitled to anything they could possibly ever want. And, by and large, women are conditioned to give it to them. So my denying them the thing they so desperately want–their orgasms–is just a way to turn that on its head. (Which is kinda the point of female domination as a whole, too.)

So it cracks me up when they behave like spoiled toddlers, throwing temper tantrums to try to get what they want, while I steadily refuse them.

On the other hand, I don’t mind when they go the other way with it and beg me, thinking that saying “Please, Ms. Faythe, I’ll do anything” enough times will change my mind. Oh, yes, you’ll do anything I tell you. But I’m still not going to let you cum!

Keep your mind here and check back often for updates from both myself and Princess Andi, my “handy” Mistress-In-Denial 🙂


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