Masturbation Instruction from a BBW cocktease

joi princessEveryone loves getting masturbation instructions, right? Well, if not “everyone,” then at least pretty much every submissive guy ever. And naturally, a cock tease extraordinaire like yours truly just loves *giving* those masturbation instructions, too.

Change your Masturbation

I also like switching things up occasionally. See, most jerking-off involve different techniques for stroking your cock. And while I enjoy giving you those, I also know that variety is the spice of life (and similar cliches). That’s why, the next time you and I are on a guided masturbation call, we’re going to do things a little differently than we normally do.

How, you ask? Well, I’m thinking that we’re going to focus less on how you can stroke and more on how you can fuck yourself for me. Anal play adds another dimension to your usual jerking session, and extra dimensions usually make for more intense orgasms–assuming I let you have one, of course.

Follow My Lead

It doesn’t matter if you’ve got tons of experience with fucking yourself or if you’ve never done it before. I can adapt my masturbation instructions to suit basically anyone. But whether you’ve tried it before or not, I still bet that you’ve wondered before if you could cum just from prostate stimulation, haven’t you? Well, I guess you’re about to find out.

Honestly, some guys can, and some can’t. But if I decide to let you cum (which is definitely not a given here), I’ll do my best to help you experience an orgasm brought about by having your ass pounded!

The small penis and cock control

How can cock control– hand domination  help a small penis?

You know how they say some of the best gifts come in small packages? Well, in the case of the small penis— this is not the case.  Yeah, sure there are some guys that do a lot to over compensate for their little dicks.  I respect that.  They become skilled in the art of cunnilingus and want to take a woman to new heights with their tongue. I  find that hot. I love a man that knows how to handle a hot queening session with me.

So this post is not really about those that take what they have and make most out of it.  Today, I am writing for the more self-centered little pricks.

You know the guy with the small little penis that cums in no time.  You know the one pump chump? He  never even makes it anywhere near a pussy and is squirting all over the place.

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This is for the guy that has a little penis and decides it’s easier just stroking then poking because he lacks discipline.

You need cock control. Hand domination is something that your little dick needs more so, then anybody because you have such an unruly appendage.

3 ways cock control–hand domination will help your small penis


1)  Cock control — hand domination will teach you to delay that orgasm. There are all kinds of things a small penis like yours needs to learn. Delaying that orgasm and not cumming so quickly, is one of the most important cock lessons a small penis will learn.

2) Cock Control– hand domination will give you discipline.  You need a masturbation diet and learn to focus not on that little trouble maker in your pants. You need to focus on your Mistress. She is the most important person in guiding you and teaching you about pleasure. The most important pleasure is hers. NOT YOURS.  If you are lucky to cum it’s at my discretion- not yours.

3)  Giving into the cock control– hand domination life style with your Mistress is a commitment that will ebb and flow.  It takes communication and trust to hand over (no pun intended)  that little penis and trust me with that little friend of yours.

I do enjoy hand dominating cocks of all sizes and little dicks are no exception!

I will capture your cock and penetrate your mind,

Miss Andi~




Ruined Orgasms and Cum Eating

How would you like to lick your cum off my fingers?

I am going to ruin that orgasm and yet you are so going to be eating your cum for me over and over and over again.

How am I going to manage that, you ask? Don’t worry about it sugar pop. I am going to tie you down, sit on your face and stroke your cock. I am going to slowly tease you and edge that dick till my hearts content and just when you want to pop. I am going to ruin that orgasm by removing my hands from that dick and let you dribble all over. I love how slippery your dick juice feels in my hands and when you have that ruined orgasm. I am going to feed it to you. Aw, you don’t think you wanna try? That’s okay this is about pleasing your Mistress and doing what keeps her happy. A little cummies in the tummy won’t hurt you. I promise you that and anyways– if you want me to control that cock. You are going to eat that cum that dribbled out now that I scooped it out and have it all over my fingers.

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Relax it’s just y0ur cum on my fingers

The nice thing about the hand job I am going to give you,  is that– I am going to ruin orgasm after orgasm until you are begging to eat all of your cum for me.

How long do you think you can handle me teasing that cock? How full and swollen are your balls going to be for me before I let those cum filled balls empty out all over my hands? I am looking forward to discovering the answers to those questions.  We are going to have so much fun together!

I am going to capture that cock and penetrate your mind,

Miss Andi


Orgasm Denial is about saying “No”

orgasm denialIt’s common knowledge that I’m a cock tease of the very highest order. Anyone who’s been around me for longer than, oh, five minutes or so is well aware of that fact.

But sometimes guys ask me *why* I enjoy cock teasing and orgasm denial so much. And since I’m such a kind and giving person (LOL), I thought I’d devote a blog post to the topic to answer that question.

Ok, the short answer–the one that I usually give people–is “Because it’s fun!” And it totally *is* fun, but I guess y’all should have an answer that’s a little less flippant. So here goes.

I think part of the reason that I find it so funny is that men have been conditioned by society to believe that they are entitled to anything they could possibly ever want. And, by and large, women are conditioned to give it to them. So my denying them the thing they so desperately want–their orgasms–is just a way to turn that on its head. (Which is kinda the point of female domination as a whole, too.)

So it cracks me up when they behave like spoiled toddlers, throwing temper tantrums to try to get what they want, while I steadily refuse them.

On the other hand, I don’t mind when they go the other way with it and beg me, thinking that saying “Please, Ms. Faythe, I’ll do anything” enough times will change my mind. Oh, yes, you’ll do anything I tell you. But I’m still not going to let you cum!

Keep your mind here and check back often for updates from both myself and Princess Andi, my “handy” Mistress-In-Denial 🙂


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Coerced Orgasms How many times do you think I can make you pop?

This is very exciting for me and I am very tickled,  for this is,  My very first post on femdom hand domination. I am super excited to be sharing this blog with the beautiful Ms. Faythe. We will be taking turns posting on this phone sex blog and you will see her post this Monday. Please keep an eye out for it.

Cock Control and Coerced Orgasms

Hand domination is about controlling that cock and ownership of your orgasms.  As, much as I enjoy keeping those

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balls blue.  Tee-hee I do enjoy demanded or in this case coerced orgasms as well.  I love teasing a hard dick and delaying that orgasm, for as long as I like and then whispering in your ear–“How many times do you think I can make you pop?”

How do you like that question? How many times do you think I can make you pop?  How do you think you could honestly respond to that question? I know I am always up for a horny cock challenge and there is something wickedly delicious about tying you to my bed and siting in such a way– straddled on your chest– scooted forward with my toes dipping into your mouth–while I am teasing my  cock, feeling your dick dribble all over my fingers– Yes,  you can suck my toes.

Delicious Cock Torment

That first orgasm always feels so amazing and then, when I continue to tease and not let up touching that very sensitive cock. Just taking your cum and rubbing it back into your cock and balls. That is what I like to call delicious cock torment.

For those of you  that have never experienced such a wonderful time like the one I just described– that’s a real pity. I hope that changes for you. Just remember, I am not giving you permission to leave my bed– till you met my cock pop challenge.  Coerced Orgasms— If I want that cock to cum 3 times in a row, well that is exactly what is going to happen. *evil grin*

I am thrilled to be able to start off Masturbation May on this new blog on one of my favorite subjects hand domination.

I will capture your cock and penetrate your mind,

Miss Andi