Anal Masturbation is a wonderful way to explore your sexuality. You don’t have to be gay to like anal play. I also want to emphasize that anal sex doesn’t have to hurt! I want you to expose and explore yourself for me. Things you will need to have for an anal masturbation session are gloves and lube. Anal toys are good but not necessary for anal masturbation, unless you have them or are comfortable with using them. Trust me, I can show you how to masturbate your ass with just your fingers!
Relax! Anal Masturbation is HOT!
It’s okay to be nervous, but you really need to take deep breaths and relax. I suggest taking a nice long hot shower. Wash yourself really good and relax. Once you are all relaxed and ready to play, get comfortable.
I want you to lay back and relax. Don’t forget to breath. Go ahead put your gloves on and explore your anus. Don’t insert your finger yet. Just start with slow caresses and applying various pressure. Pay attention to how you feel. Anal stimulation is not something you want to rush. Not at first, especially for a beginner. Your anus is full of wonderful nerve endings and you are going to feel things, good things, intense feelings, like you never felt before. I want you to be prepared both emotionally and physically, because anal masturbation is often very intense.
When you are ready, lube up your finger! I want you to slowly push your finger in and breath. Squeeze your anal muscles around your finger. Let your finger explore inside your anal cavity. Take your time and play with the front wall of the inside of your ass. Do a “come here” finger movement with your finger still inside you. Do you feel your prostate? Your prostate will feel like a little sponge-y spot on the inside wall facing your cock and balls. You will feel it kind of swell up a little bit and your cock will start to leak. Don’t touch your cock and balls! Just explore and feel how good masturbating your ass can be.
Did you know that anal stimulation can not only lead to multiple orgasms, but can also lead to a full body orgasm? Yes. If you want to experience a full body orgasm, I want to play with your ass.
BDSM games are fun. At the moment, I have 3 things on my mind right now. Concerning BDSM I am sure you have figured it out by now– I am for all kinds of kinky BDSM games. So, as your mistress. I just can’t stop thinking about these 3 things. Bondage, Face-sitting, and edging your dick.
Bondage is something I can’t stop thinking about.
I want to tie you spread eagle and restrain you to my queen sized bed. I do- I do. This will be a blast using my restraints on you, while, watching you wiggle and squirm. I would blind fold you but–then you would miss out on seeing my beautiful pussy! hee hee Not that you are worthy of seeing my pussy but…
Facesitting is part of the plan.
I am going to sit on your face while you are tied up to my bed. Comfy? Good. I am going to take my pleasure while sitting on your face. How many orgasms do you think you could give me while I have you tied up to my bed? MMM… I do love to feel your mouth on my pussy!
Edging and teasing your cock!
No bdsm game would be complete without me giving you the ultimate handjob. I love watching and feeling your dick throb and twitch in my hand as I slowly pump your hard cock with my beautiful hand! I like to feel your tongue freeze up on my pussy as I am making your balls ache.
Like that doesn’t already sound like a spunktacular time. I want to play a sexy little game with you. I want to see how many orgasms you can give me with your tongue. In return, I will do my best to double that number in delaying your orgasm by edging your dick.
What a fun bdsm game! I look forward to stroking your cock and keeping you from cumming. This is going to be a very hot time!
Handjobs. I love teasing a cock and if you have ever experienced a hand job from someone that likes to tease and edge you, you know what an awesome experience that can be. I enjoy being a part of giving such awesome experiences.
I also enjoy food play. So, why wouldn’t I want to incorporate the two? With the spring festivities upon us. I will have some leftover ham. hee-hee and I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to tie you to my bed. I would start with your arms and proceed to tie your legs. Then I will touch you and whisper naughty things in your ear. “Would you like a ham job?”
I can just imagaine the look on your face when you hear me ask you that! A ham job? I can’t help but giggle as I pull out a slice of leftover ham and wrap it around your cock!
The nice thing about hand jobs are, most of the time, if you are careful enough, you can do them without anyone noticing. Do you find yourself turned on and embarrassed at the same time thinking about my hand wrapped around your hard dick at the holiday dinner table? Can you imagine? Here we are sitting at a long table with lots of familiar faces and your cloth napkin barely covering your erection as I tease you through your dress pants? Conversations and the clatter of flatware against the special china keep everyone from hearing me unzip your pants as you try to eat a forkful of prime rib? I laugh as I watch your hands shake and your face redden as you feel my hand slip inside your pants and pull out your dick. MMM… Aw, whats the matter? I see little beads of sweat forming over your lip and that vein on the side of your neck is pulsating. I giggle as I can practically see and hear your heart thumping out of your chest.
My hand job feels so good and you can’t show it.
I know you’re embarrassed and turned on! My hand on your dick has you rock hard. I giggle when someone asks you to pass the butter. I keep my hand on your dick as you cock drips precum all over my hand. I don’t miss a stroke as I reach for a sip of my wine and discreetly stroke your cock faster. I can tell you want to cum. Now, here is the problem I face– do I let you cum? Do I ruin your orgasm? Or do I just watch you squirm and leave you with blue balls? I do love these kinds of choices! Happy Holidays!
There are many types of ways that I can dominate you with my hand and one sexy fun way is spanking you with them. Just imagine you over my knee being spanked…did you just get a boner? Some guys enjoy being spanked so much it is easy to dominate them because they just want a sexy hand on their ass!
Spanking fetish do you have one
Well simply put if you get a raging hard on from an ass slapping you probably have a bit of a spanking fetish. Some people think fetish means something bad but in reality it just means something you get sexual gratification from. Yes you might have a bit of an obsession about your fetish but so what it is not hurting anyone….well except yourself that is *giggles*
It turns me on to spank you
To see you bent over and watch that ass of yours change every shade of pink to red from me spanking it is such a turn on for me. I know the harder I spank that ass the more turned on you get and the more turned on you get the hotter and yes even wetter I get.
Now I know I can not be there to do it in person but this is where we can get creative. You can spank that ass for me while on the phone all we need to do is prepare. You bring the spanking implements and I control the action. You will feel as though I was there working that ass over with my pretty hand and having you melt to my wants and needs all for just one more spank.
Ready for your spanking
Are you ready to have my hand dominating your ass with a nice hot spanking session? Do you want to hear me get excited with each slap to that ass…well it is time to pick up the phone and let the spanking begin! Hey don’t forget reach out to me before a session so I can tell you what to bring to make our session hot and so you can spank that ass for me!
There was a time when a guy got a hand job it was a big deal but now it seems blow jobs and fucking is all a guy wants. I honestly think this is due to the fact guys just don’t know what a good hand job is and when you mix cock edging in with a hand job well it can be mind blowing!
Hand Job from a Mistress
This is how I like to do it …first I need him on his back spread eagle and naked of course! I then like to just gently tie his hands above his head so that he can’t in a moment of extreme frustration finish himself off. Next step is lube LOTS of lube all over his cock and balls making that dick shiny and ready for a hot sexy hand job. I of course start out teasing that cock with just a couple of fingers and watching and feeling that cock grow slowly building up his need for my hand to be around his dick and making him beg me to pump it.
Slow motion hand job
Once he has begged for me to pump his horny hard dick in my sexy hand then and only then do I start to do that but ohhhh not how he wishes I would, that would be too easy instead I like to works my fingers around that hard shaft and slowly begin to jerk that cock. A slow motion hand job can really drive a man wild trust me I know *wink*. One he is trying to thrust his dick in and out of my hand to try and push me to go faster I then laugh and tease the head of his cock with my thumb.
cock edging with my sexy hand
The next step is when he is pleading for me to do more than just tease the head of his cock with my thumb and begging for more than a slow motion hand job I start to slide my hand up and down in a steady motion. Just when he thinks I am going to finish him off and he starts to moan and grunt and groan I stop him right on the edge of orgasm. Frustrated is a word you could use for this type of a cock edging hand job but I will continue once I feel he is past the overwhelming urge to cum……this can go on for hours!
Are you ready for a wet hot fun hand job with cock edging and delay built in? Can you handle my pretty little hand dominating your dick for hours? I cant wait to talk to you and tease you and slide my hand down on you….and well you get the idea *giggles*
Hand domination is much more then me just telling you how to touch and caress your penis. Hand domination is a form of cock control princess worship. There is nothing more flattering then a submissive man, submitting with the desire to worship me. It is your desire to worship me that brings you to me.
Cock Control Princess worship
Is a form of masturbation and I love when a willing man is horny and wants to share in this intense pleasure with me. I don’t have to be in the room for a hand domination session. Despite my not being in the room with you– just the mere thought of me stirs up all kinds of sexy and exciting feelings. Your penis can’t help but harden wanting to worship me. My young sexy body, my long legs, my beautiful full lips. There are so many things about me that excite you.
So many reasons for you to want to stroke that hard cock and worship me. So, you choose to pick up the phone (perhaps get on cam as well, to give me the pleasure of watching you worship me, with each caress of that horny cock) and enjoy a worshipful stroking session— listening to my soft voice while my words wash over you, instructing you on how to caress that hard cock for me. Of course the longer you stroke that cock, the longer you get to worship me.
IF you get to cum for me
If I let you cum and make a worship puddle, then you no longer get to edge and show me how much you worship me– so, we both don’t want that! As much as I love to have you make that worship puddle, I will keep you edging, I will keep you worshiping your beautiful and sexy Princess with each exciting caress to that hard and horny cock. I love hearing you moan, as your hand moves up and down that erect cock. As your hands do my bidding — as you pant with desire, as I whisper and encourage you to keep that cum all bottled up for me. This is designed to show me how much you really worship me.
edging your cock to show devotion
Are you willing to edge and hold off on cumming to prove your devotion to your cock control princess? I get turned on, listening to you beg for release to show me how much you want to make a worship puddle in honor of your cock control princess. As much as I enjoy the thought of you making a worship puddle. I thoroughly enjoy edging that cock. Having you show me, how much you worship me with each exciting stroke up and down your hard shaft.
All of this is intense and very exciting. I love how that cock of yours is used as a form of cock control princess worship. How deep is your desire to worship me?
This has turned out to be a very frustrating weekend for you hasn’t it pet? You came home after a long business trip to find me naked in bed with your best friend. I told you– it was a matter of time. You have always known that I am a self serving spoiled Princess and I look out for my pleasure above everyone else. Including yours. That doesn’t mean that I don’t care about you. It just means– I am greedy for what makes me feel good. But the thing is. When you tried to join in on the fun I was having without even asking first. I knew you needed to be taught a lesson. So, here is your lesson. I smiley sweetly as I hand you a box. Go ahead and open it. I had it made just for you. Remember, I measured you? Well, here is the reason why– I had this chastity device made just for you. Go ahead and put it on. I am locking you up this weekend. Now that you are locked up. You can watch me and your friend but you can’t do anything but watch… well, you might get to enjoy clean up duty if you are a good locked up pet! Do you think you can be a good boy?
I enjoy all forms of cock control. It is no secret that I am a cock tease that enjoys tease and denial. I love giving masturbation instructions and all kinds of masturbation games. Many guys are surprised to learn how much I love ruined orgasms.
Why ruin an orgasm?
A ruined orgasm will keep you hungry. I like to tease guys that ruined orgasms are like Chinese food. In most cases, you will be hungry again in 30 minutes. The real reason I enjoy ruined orgasms, and by ruined orgasms I mean ruining your orgasms, is doing this keeps you focused on ME. I love how horny you are for me, how more attentive you are. You are weak and puddy in my hands!
Three techniques I like to use on you to ruin orgasms.
Abandoning: This is the very first technique I ever used to ruin an orgasm. I had no idea what a ruined orgasm was at the time of doing this. I was giving a guy a hand job in a semi public place and just as he was about to cum, I got startled because I thought someone walked in on us. I let go of his cock just seconds before he started to squirt. Abandoning is exactly how it sounds. You stop all stimulation to the penis just as he starts to ejaculate. This is one of the easiest ways to ruin an orgasm.
Palming: I like using this technique because it kind of keeps you guessing. What is palming? Well, it is when I take my hand and, as you are about to squirt, use my palm to “seal” over the tip of your cock head, pressing down over your cum-hole, keeping you from squirting. The palm of my hand kind of hides your cock head and keeps you from seeing what is happening. An added frustration to you, or as I like to think, an added benefit to our hand domination scene.
Thwacking: Now this ruined orgasm technique is especially devilish. I love using this technique with guys that are into CBT. What a delicious way to torment your cock! Have no doubt, this technique will add to your frustration! Which, of course, makes me smile. This is how I enjoy implementing the thwacking technique. Just as your about to cum, I smack the very sensitive underside of your cock with quick, rapid slaps. Sometimes I use a wooden spoon. Most times I use my hand. This slapping of your cock shocks it into not cumming. *evil grin*
Of course, I may use other techniques to ruin your orgasm, and there are many. I wanted to mention 3 of the most common techniques I use with someone that is new to ruined orgasms. If you are into cock control, a ruined orgasm is a must try experience.
There is something about giving you a hand job in the car that really turns me on. I really like, teasing you while I drive on a remote road, touching your leg, saying things to you like, “I am thinking your dick wants to come out and play–wouldn’t you like me to touch it for you?”
I pull off to a side road and park the car. After, I cock tease you through your jeans a little bit. I quickly sit up, so I can slide my pink silk lace panties down my sexy long legs. I slip them off and hold them close to your face. You eagerly breath in my scented panties. How do you like the smell of me on my panties? I whisper in your ear: “Like my panties?” I murmur, go ahead and get your dick out for me and smell my panties. I continue to hold them to your face and tease you with my panties, as you unzip your jeans.
When you pull your dick out. I slowly tease the head of your cock with one finger and then giggle.
I am going to give you a hand job with my panties.
You want to stroke that dick for me don’t you? Your dick is rock hard. You nod your head yes. I giggle because the way your head bobs up and down reminds me of the way your dick is bobbing up and down.
As, I smile and giggle. I quietly tell you, “You can’t touch it! I am the one that is going to play with your hard dick! I am going to give you a hand job with my sexy silky panties. You do, want me to pump your dick with my panties don’t you?”
My question to you is: “How many panty strokes will it take before you cum in my panties?”